To obtain “presence”
You want it - you need to get it.
Speaking like yourself
And having that “qualifications” and deep thought process
Having a mind is one thing
But speaking eloquently and able to convey your messages to the world is one too
You think of mum - speaks and shouts loud but no content - people look at her for fun
Think of 3brother - have the thought process but inability to speak from his 丹田 - people will take him 耳边风
The way you convey
Is so much important to the world because no matter how good your thought is
If you’re not able to transmit to the world then what good is it?
Communication skills - it should be speaking what you want to speak
From your own heart
Not trying to please others or get others respect
But the work and things you have in your mind
Respect them
And find a way to say it out
And people will automatically respect you
It’s like being attractive doesn’t mean you should try to get the girl
Means you should be so attractive so the girl should come to you
And either that’s within inner like conversations, your thoughts, your ability to make people feel comfortable with you, charismatic or even being good looking.
For you it should be ability to do many things and making sure everything is in place