Control your ship

If the captain of the ship can't be stable - then cruising a ocean liner through a path of ice and fire would be very very difficult - you got to be stable mentally (because most of the the thought and business comes from mentally).

自从变成浪漫主义 - 开始怀疑自己就变得比较愚蠢 romantically idiot to be submersing in ideology that you can only THINK; but not do.

For e.g: You've wanted a relationship for both sides to be happy; but now you're sitting in your room alone and whenever you've found your peers married: 你无视感情中的美好

For e.g: You wanted and you dreamt of a happy family with very very 琐碎 agendas: but you've not maintained a good relationship with them whenever you called

For e.g: You've wanted a job that you love but whenever and you're so "romantically" involved in that idea of a "good job"; but it all boils down to money and when it comes to you finding a job for it you lack the tenacity

You're just such a romantic person; but without any real action
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It all depends on how fast and how quick you can see through this. Smartness and intelligence after all; the result just seemed in the end: it's about time. Like how you played Sudoku and you seemed "smarter" by solving them fast enough.

So just think through it; by working on the mind. Means you gotta work through intellectual difficults - think through from the mind. Intellectual hardship. Hardwork can get you to places.

Doesn't matter what opportunities come; take it and then work through it.