Spoken rules of social secret

Don’t speak to others the way you won’t speak about a third party if you were in front of the third party.

Meaning do not badmouth.

You gotta be strong mentally - all in the brain. Speak firmly. Father thoughts process without fearing. Know what you want to say and the consequences of saying them. Grow maturity and have growth mindset - don’t be afraid of making mistake at this point

Don’t be saying things because of “emotions” and “feelings” and “fear of not liked by others”
The vibe you got from PS, Ben and people who say with the first thought of trying to impress others - are not living the life and not in control.

Be in control & think maturity
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Don’t be afraid to say what you think. Thinking is the most important aspect of this statement.