Socially

Don’t be too available and vulnerable when meeting new people
Be calm
Having a lot of your mind and thinking a lot - that’s what a more logical people would do. Blurting it out is too emotional and sometimes easy to lose people’s interest [Meeting with Lisa]

Grasping the emotional components of conversation
Getting into her head with a emotional connection

Have you ever see girls looking dead in your eyes before? And why not?

And you don’t know why; it seems either like you’re coming off too strong (way too aggressive) or you’re too ugly (not smiling; too serious and giving people too much stress) to be pleasing her

Instead you just gotta be yourself

Be more softer - and don’t say everything all in one shot
There’ll be time
Take it slow
Control is most important

Think fast but act slow; control the pace

Just like how you avoid eye contact with people like G
Cos he’s too strong
He doesn’t have the 共鸣 ability -

Never be sorry about you spoiling the fun though
It’s not you

It’s them - and really being attractive isn’t trying to be sorry

Is trying to live the best and being the main character all of it all

Don’t come off too strong; smile more and joke more - slowly bring up the tension

Not everyone is gonna be talking aggressive like you or G

Human psychology of leading people
“Be soft with your own people, be aggressive with your head-on opponents”

Different ways between talking to successful people and potential wives - you gotta be more soft towards girls

You need to “act”
There is no fit one for all personality

Be versatile and flexible; it’s all businessman traits.

Try less error but fail more if that makes sense

Life goes on so many things