Reputation is sort of important.

To Jiang Wei & Bryan: don’t just think of yourself:

下次跟你们抽, 我现在赶时间

If you reroute it ~ same destination but different feels:

我回来再跟你们抽 我刚好要meet 朋友;

这个可以让他们好回

因为你让他们开心,所以他们也不会 因为你的不开心而不让你开心

The most topnotch about emotional intelligence: people care about you because you care about them; and also you have that aura ✨ and makes people feel like they NEED to serve you: rather than Zin. I don’t need to make her happy - BECAUSE she doesn’t make me happy! Life is all fair and game - how you attract others people will do the same to you. They’d feel the same towards you.

“Since It’s the same resources in (the time and effort and hard work to put in) - why don’t put in more effort?”

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Give people the sense of reputation that you’re URGENT. Because excellent people do that. The world is about doers and non-doers remember - so do give people that sense.