Nobody literally gives a f*ck
Overthinking that people cares about you - no you not that important
Discipline is power
The only power is to still put yourself through
and having that ability to “吃苦”
Doesn’t mean hard labour and shit
Means even if you’re well rested at home
You do the things you’re supposed to do rather than lying on the bed
That is real power
Only can be trained using discipline and sheer will power
Life is all about trying and understanding new things
Not asking you to conform to others
But the ability to be versatile and learning different world perspectives - it’s a game, remember?
If you feel stuck it’s probably you’ve been shutting yourself in your world
Maybe try putting into others people shoes
If it’s right follow
If it’s not right then stop
It’s far more fulfilling to be married than to get an academic PhD (LKY)
That means living life
Adult talks - you could hear the difference of a calm guy and knowing what to reply - all comes with experience and mindset