New year resolution?

不要油腻
要瘦!

It’s the people who do vs people who don’t

If you’re stupid and you’re a doer: you’ll slowly become a more clever doer

If you’re smart but you’re a thinker: you’ll slowly be outsmarted by some other people and you’ll feel like not doing more and more

It’s the same concept as being interesting, being outshine in work relationships,

For example if you’re the person who initiated the conversation

People will think you’re the life of the party

Never feel like not talking because other people in the group is not

Or rather do not feel like you NEED to please others because others don’t talk

You do not need to be pleasing people like YH

You just need to be yourself; be interesting and people will feel for you

Like you trying to please others is the worst tactic ever

Just do - read and study the materials what makes you interested

Never feel back down by the stupid mistakes you do - never go into a spiral of feeling nothingness because you tell yourself “it’s okay”

You should be making mistakes first then telling yourself “it’s okay”

Never dive into conversations that doesn’t require brain power (and you see a lot of Asians afraid to show that they’re the stupid ones)

Put effort into everything! Including your meals your travel time your surrounding

Don’t be doomed trapped in your phone or tryin to escape

Be strong enough to explore

That’s why in Asian context - the gaps larger

Same as their wealth gap
Because the knowledge gap is higher

2024: be great again - be clear again - be healthy (mentally) again

You wanna go deep - you wanna do it tactically