Living in the moment

And having that “purpose”
Like I don’t go to badminton just for another purpose
Actually make friends
Or be good in badminton

Whatever your purpose is
You don’t just “go there”
Like you WANTED something

If nobody is there you also wanted right?

That should be the spirit

Remember
You don’t have to be friends with others by pleasing them, saying pleasing words

You just have to be attractive yourself
Work on witty, English structures, words to say

You blank coz of the habits you put in
Even with badminton players
There should be a scenario in every situation that makes you feel good
and you should thrive to do that
Don’t just be yourself in your own world
Go out and meet people it’s totally fine if people rejected you
They have their own agendas
And your job is to “white lie” them to get what you wanted to do - don’t be so extreme
There is a way of conveying words

Everything - as long as you put a time allocation in it
You’ll do it
Like - I want to go for a badminton session today. Lock it in

Cos no matter how late (which you always are)
There’s this “promise” that you’ll fulfil
Rather than not being there it’s okay to being late

Just put your situation in (things that are achievable and measurable, unlike “I want to be successful”)
Like I’m actually going to go to the library

Then set the date in - no matter how uncomfortable you are
At least when you’re there
You’ll try to find your way to be the top

Be in the moment and you’ll be interested in EVERYTHING - be actually THERE
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So you won’t missed out any opportunities
You just gotta be there
And know there’s a way to speak adult