Letting go and learn

To be not listening to breakup songs
Put yourself into position that will not let you feel deep into your own sorrow
That’s pretty stupid

Think of everyone else - why do Elon Musk and some successful people can achieve so much
Because they do not fell into the bug feeling melancholic emotions

There’s so much other people. Other loves.
Don’t spend it all to someone who doesn’t give it to you back (especially now it is after a year of breakup & during the relationship many times you don’t the same way)

You feel you lost the respect once you did something - that’s so harsh to yourself
Because two should be bigger than one

You should let it all out
There’s no sense in trying to hide your “ability” like in many Asian context - it don’t make sense

People will eventually see you in the end anyways
Don’t keep quiet thinking people will not know what you are up to

your behaviour and intelligence will eventually show

The thing about relationships and dealing with people

Is not not to give a shit about others
Think yourself and evaluate more about bringing love rather than focusing on avoiding conflicts

Put in more efforts into genuine relationship
And it’s okay to fail

You’ll learn more things that way of thinking

Don’t care about the bad moods
The past
Live in the present and
Focus on good conversations
Good speaking skills
And human skills

Just focus