Just so you sleep soundly at night

Never be stressful about relationships

Even when the Grab driver is doing stupid things such as driving a bit to the front when you walk towards it - I don’t know what is his intentions but if I step forward and go forward and fight: it’s a waste of time.
I will keep thinking about the negative points and I’ll be miserable for the whole day.

Instead - do something more productive!

Know your game, your weakness your strengths, do not put kindness as your strengths though that will make others abuse your powers - instead make it to compassionate and understanding human relationships

You need to be courage

There’s a graph of courage vs humanness
And you need to be high on courage and high on humanness

That’s the one successful people are at

Never be angry because you didn’t get your work
Neither never be stagnant when you are having social life values

——— YH’s skateboard money

Don’t need to think about negativity again - move on and go onto the next item
It’s always not good to pass down the negativity from before - to the next person

Bring love and good vibes instead
As long as you did something right
There’s nothing to be scared about;
做人的情商高就是要直视,探讨 & go deep into the levels, everything there is a rationale why you do this or you don’t - else it just makes you seem like a NPC (not makes it seems is it really is) - there HAS to be a reason why people did things they did before; your curiosity is just lacking of courage to execute the rationale search