How to talk
- when striking a conversation - don’t allow negativity
- it’s a brain training: how to continue the conv
Intelligence: is judged not based on the preparation
But your current status: what can you come up with on the spot
Can you hold the fears
The ego and the inferiority
You gotta feel very steady and calm
To do that your state of mind has to be very clear
Even if you do not know the stuff beforehand
When faced a situation
There’s a tactic to do it
And usually when faced with a situation: it’s confrontation by humans
So being socially skilled it’s an intelligence
You don’t gotta tell M about how the subcon talk shit about him
It doesn’t benefit you
Think actually how he felt
You listen to him respect him and EARN his trust
I mean it’s not loyal; not moral or honest
But that’s the way to win people
So being socially skilled also being liked by your manager
When L asked you how are you
He genuinely put a lot of effort and bravery to talk to me
Which by the way, you will never ever do to all the Myanmar colleagues
The guy who provide initiatives
And the guy who has the goal idea implanted in his head
Will laugh to the end
This applies to EVERYTHING in life (relationships, friendships, people, knowledge, IQ)
As long as you start thinking and initiate it
You shall be better than others