Don't believe every wisdom that you get blindly, do not follow into the dogma instead fuck around and find out, which means test out your own hypothesis. Don't give into the seduction of borrowed wisdom, learn to rigorously test out the biases as well as the wisdom that you are given as true. Do not accept anything at face value and instead question and test it out on the touchstone of real world practical experiences. It is only when you learn to test out your wisdom with practical lens, will you be able to know for certainty about which wisdoms that you received were actually worth the weight of gold and which ones were those which essentially was passed down wisdom, never questioned. Especially in the context of India where questioning is seen as a heresy act, instead it is the best way to build the muscle of discernment. The way to go about it is to understand the parable of the wisdom, then apply to your context, run an experimentation to collect data and then compare it with the original thought. The deviation or alignment will exactly give you the insight in terms of what is true and what is not and if it is true then to what degree does the certainty extend to. FAFO is very key in also understanding what lies ahead, to explore beyond the obvious and hidden. Keep exploring and figuring out.
