For others not you? EQ
Go deep not broad - for the work you do; and the relationships you put in
Be a guy who has reputation - and reputation can change over time
What do you want others to think of you
Though it’s not that important if others think of you else wise (because that might not be true interpretation people with low EQ can perceive differently)
不要成为 自感而发
成为 为世界而生