Do best
Everything you do… have a want in your head.
Always want something. rather than resting - or else you feel tired all the time.
Be it impressing your colleagues. Or sounding smart. Or getting reputation. Or getting that money. Or getting something
Or even as general as wanting to feel productive. And smart. (So that you don’t feel like you wasted your life && loosening your brain muscles)
Or even sitting straight. Living life correctly. Put gel on your hair.
That itself makes you so attractive - know what you want.
Understand the game that you’re playing.
And don’t be afraid of making mistakes - life is all about mistakes and how you’re trying to reduce and avoid as many as possible. 勇敢的去玩 - your past don’t define you it’s what you set your mindset NOW that makes the difference after. So don’t be worried and overthink - just start now and do what you can.
Only be aggressive in what you want and you’ll get the reciprocate of what others will give. Like friendship & career helps. That’s why EQ is a much more important trait than IQ.
Remove toxicity. Don’t have to worry if others don’t get it - they’ll understand else they don’t get it’s on them.