Cnbc
To be at to have a sharp brain
Keep working
Reading
Have a social life
When tired - take it slower; but you’ve never heard people said STOP 🛑 just slower
The first step is always the hardest
First step of “吃苦” - of hardworking
Allocate an “action card” to it
For example if I put the laptop on my lap on the MRT - I’ll start to work
Life is not just about working
We are social animals; you know in order to succeed we need to work with humans somehow; and it’s most of the time we need to work with someone else
So that is why emotional intelligence is so important
Socially you need to excel as well
Never heard the real BUSY bosses that they don’t have the time to do certain things
It’s just the time allocation as well as their quick action personality
If you get distracted by your hormones. If you feel like it; do as what L has discussed with you
Open your mind and discuss it with people. Maybe what your approach is might not be the best option (it’s all about perspectives)
Learn new perspectives and see whether it’ll fit you
Maybe divert the distraction to something else? Exercise? Learn new social activity? Or even sexual life
All I know is not to just stay home
Even if you stay home train your brain to do productive things
Leave others’ life approaches to others; you don’t live your life to accommodate others
It’s good to take better people’s life as an example
But to follow exactly and being anxious that others are living theirs so differently than yours… is just stupid.
Know that different people has different phases, work on different clocks
So live your life at the moment
and just do