Gathering thoughts…
Is a mix of competency and warmth. Find the balance - you can’t be too friendly but don’t know anything at the same time.
To have charisma you need competent
And you need to radiate out with the right amount of body & language works (way of converse, thoughts, vocabs - language is the best way to exhibit & market yourself)
Do internal work. Can’t be getting sore seeing someone else’s better. Y
Yknow you’re feeling sore because of your own insecurities
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There’s a quick way to find your talent short cut. Do the actual hard work not the societal pressure (means thinking hard and giving high standards to yourself) Once you got there you’ll have so many things you can do - and you have that “do it now mentality” same as “enjoy it now not later” Do more and reap the rewards more. But do must come first. Enjoy doing the hard things…
你先去做 做出一堆狗屎 在慢慢去改. 只要做了 你就会发现你的技术会改进 “你可以懒惰 粗燥的做 可是千万不要想你变得完美了 才去做”
'Good guys never get the same ink like the bad guys do'
If the captain of the ship can't be stable - then cruising a ocean liner through a path of ice and fire would be very very difficult - you got to be stable mentally (because most of the the thought and business comes from mentally). 自从变成浪漫主义 - 开始怀疑自己就变得比较愚蠢 romantically idiot to be submersing in ideology that you can only THINK; but not do. For e.g: You've wanted a…
Suffer makes grit
