Business is in the details.

You need to learn how to “divert” the attention

If your girl ask why you don’t do something that she want you to do:
Be it -

Talking to her
Asking for fashion advice
Even knowing what she wants to eat
What she wear or her birthday or anything even;

If you make a mistake - say because I do not want to drag you down or make you unhappy or anything, however if you want to do it your way I’m willing to do so.

Don’t just say sorry and be a loser
Even that time when you got caught
Say you want to look at so many other girls just to find out that you’re the one
It’s actually humor who can make you go away

There’s a way to say it or way to think it.

Hate myself for being a 直男 and not thinking things through - it’s all in the details and through asking and asking in a polite correct way (not hurting others) you can get your answer

It’s all in the brains. Do you think if it were you; what would you think
换位思考 (think very into)

However of course the bottom line
Never try to please others
What you might think is wrong: you will be likeable if you’re strong and thinking like a 💯
Be a strong person

Anything that you might not agree on:

Say it in a different way don’t play like you’re not on a team

Talk like a businessman and think how you say can affect them
Of course agree with them in the beginning
Give acknowledgement; especially with disagreement
Give them your stand

Why? Because once you say the truth
Everyone has that feeling that “they’re right”

And to get others to agree
Is by making them succumb❌force