Body senses
You started to feel anxious because
You are comparing yourself to your friends subconsciously
Your brain tells you and giving you signals that you didn’t know
“Preparing yourself” don’t mean you need to putting yourself into stressful situations
It just means adjusting your mindset
That given certain situations - what are you supposed to react so you’re still calm and composed
If you have the mindset right
You’ll do all necessary preparations
Beauty is no matter how late you are
There’ll be a way to get yourself prepared
- to go to lunch with E having your clothes done you’ll just need to wake up immediately and do your laundries, even if it’s late. At that point you won’t think of sleeping in
- to prepare yourself mentally for studies and work: you will have your clothes ready by actually buying sufficient clothes - these are necessities
- to cook: you’ll revamp your furnitures, your room
- if you want to be smart, you’ll get information and helping yourself responsible for everything your life: your survival financially, sort out your life by actually taking care of yourself well. Only then you’ll find some time for self development
- your career: only if you freed up your time and NOT SPENDING those time on entertainment - you’ll have time to think about your career goals, and where you stand - then you will start to study, read news and gain info
No one is “smart” without having these ‘privileges’, either given or self-made
Think of WJ [priveleged] or B [non-privileged]
To mentally prepare yourself for consistently being young and smart being risk taking
So if you have all these trivial things prepared
You’ll have a better mental mode to target problems in life
Cos you know you’ve done your best
And it’s time to gather new info