Be socially butterflying
Does it mean to take initiative?
Not to have “fear”
Fear is quite unsexy tbh.
Working in BA
Where you’re surrounded by so many rich living in houses at least 1 mil each
Makes you wonder what they are doing to be so successful
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I don’t know how to figure this out
But can only think from the way that separates my peers (rich vs poor) at least in terms of monetary success
- Rich people do not have 包袱.
Most forward looking; live life so enjoyable like they are meant to do everything at every moment. Tackles one problem at a time;
There is no such thing known as “maybe one day”
You just put in the hard work and get what you want.
No secret - plain hardwork and through true genuine value work
- Compared to people who “stops” there - it’s the lie they tell themselves. Excuses. That they’re not this, not that, poor, no car, no one to put their clothes and laundry, any excuses they could think of. They’re young; it’s okay; fear of being left out or fear of saying the wrong thing - which do not makes sense at all in the grand scheme of things/life.
Put your mind into it - you’ll eventually align yourself to get what you’ve wanted.
Focus on the bad and you’ll get norm.
Focus on the good and you’ll get good.
- Optimism. Or successful people understand everything is not personal - it’s where you need to be. Life is not a personal situation; you get played at this character and it’s up to you to choose how you continue to play it next. Never blame about life and understand that EVERYTHING is at your own accountability.
Success and failure: literally jst your standpoint your 视野 your eyesight