Atelic vs telic

Person number 1 vs person number 2

Relationships - people text, fuck, catch feelings and suddenly understand that:
you have choices in your life - person 1

heartbroken - person 2

Now can’t admit I’m person 2
Always being telic

Trying to “get some goals” “achieve something in your life” “being in that relationship by successfully pleasing someone”

Now you should go for atelic approaches

Just live in the moment
Put no goals and genuinely enjoy life

Go to —

Elon musk vs Mark Zuckerberg
People who are genuinely smart
Or people who are nerdy smart and be hardworking

I genuinely believed people who has attained a level of success in any aspects
Has faced a certain failures or rejection in their life
And it’s coz they’ve completely practiced the concept of letting go
Only by letting go you’re able to accept the good things
Been listening to that song unlimited amount of times

You’ve been facing that social anxiety challenge for a period of times (church, tuition, ex house, hangouts)
But you’ve also enjoyed the moments of social success in your life (high school, uni, overseas travel, family)

You were in your own skin
And it’s because certain people accepted you
Certain people do not

It’s okay when it’s not
Learn and mimic their social cues
Be quiet and observant at times
It’s nothing wrong

Learn human make mistakes and human doesn’t know everything
And it’s very easy for humans to learn and be assimilate too

Actually the worst is being passive and feeling “scared” JUST BECAUSE of others
That is the most BS thing ever

Respect queer people and they are by far the more interesting ones