ang mo vs asian
The difference you can obviously think is conservative.
But what does conservative means? It also means that they are more opened to new ideas and the problem with Asian thinking is it’s way too conservative.
That there’s a certain system or rule to follow; which might not be real
That you can date as many as you like
That you should be talking about events and activities and jobs and income
I think that’s the pros - that you should find new stuff to do outside of work
But remember to do it well
Angmos also keep on doing; be it work or relationship - maybe they are not as good as work as their way of establishing relationships: they just do
No ignorance or passing by and thinking this life is not part of them so they don’t need to care - they cared EVERY SINGLE detail and hence the expats who come here to work will usually thrive.
We need to keep up by not only hard work; but the thinking models.
Be open minded and keep moving as much as possible
We thrive through hardship
But it’s important to keep it lively and fun too - talk to people whenever there’s chance don’t be shy away - else you’re really shying away from opportunities arises (you used to think in uni how do you approach people if you had nothing to say)
Make yourself interesting! Don’t ignore the quality time you might be missing by doing the right things rather than stagnant on TikTok videos & Instagram reels - these brainless activities costs you to be
NPC