Sep 18, 2022

18th September- Forgive me nots…

What I want to learn to figure out: how to forgive and forget?

I think the reason I got triggered again is because I dealt with the Nelson story by painting him as the villain and moving on.

But shoo dating him is just clear evidence that I can’t be right and it has deeply challenged my beliefs on that.

If Nelson isn’t the one responsible for all my pain then it means I am. How do I come to terms with that?

But maybe it isn’t Pari or Nelson. Maybe it is just that the 2 of you bring out the worst in each other. The same Pari is amazingly happy with musti. It’s cuz yes, musti is awesome but Pari is also doing a good job and musti is happy with her too. The same nelson will also be happy with Shivani and make her happy too.

Shivani is capable of understanding him. That doesn’t mean that “oh pari, you were wrong, the guy is great and you must’ve been the one who misunderstood him” Shivani isn’t triggered by Nelson. Shivani won’t go through the restrictions nelson put on me.

It is not commentary on me that Shivani is dating Nelson.

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